There's at least one current thread that talks about the importance of keeping your (fill in the blank - wife, partner, significant other, cat) happy. Is someone else's happiness that important if it comes at your expense? Your self respect? Giving up on things you want just so the other half can have more?? What if they already have more?? Just where do you draw the line??? If you've got a solid relationship, built on mutual respect, how important is it to make the other person happy??