Here is a question for those of you who have kids (or those who don't for that matter). At what age do you believe it is appropriate to let a child see an "R"rated movie? I am not talking about the Friday the 13th or Halloween genres, which I obviously believe would be inappropriate. Here is my situation. I have an ten year old who loves to play war, cops and robbers, etc. Obviously most kids engage in that type of play, however, I am beginning to think he might need to understand that when somebody gets killed, it is not a pretty sight and is forever. I have been thinking about letting him watch at least a portion of "Saving Private Ryan" for a "realistic portrayal" of the violence of war. My only concern is it may be too intense. I am just curious about your thoughts and experiences. Thanks.