...it's all in a point of view! Barbara Walters, of 20/20, did a story on gender roles in Kabul, Afghanistan several years before the Afghan conflict. She noted that women customarily walked five paces behind their husbands. She recently returned to Kabul and observed that women still walk behind their husbands. Despite the overthrow of the oppressive Taliban regime, the women are happy to maintain the old custom. Ms. Walters approached one of the Afghani women and asked, 'Why do you still seem happy with an old custom that you once tried so desperately to change?' The woman looked Ms. Walters straight in the eye and without hesitation said, "Land Mines" No matter what language you speak or where you go, behind every man there is a smart woman.