I think you're missing my point. I'm perfectly willing to pay for access to the channels cable and satellite companies offer. I'm enjoying my new DirecTV services. It's just the fees beyond the main package that get annoying.
I finally had to bail on my beloved pair of TiVos, and cable service, because those units couldn't do what I needed them to any longer. Most channels unavailable on my old SD one (only a few analogs channels still on the wire), and my HD one always struggled with its CableCARD and tended to lose channels in the lineup. Also upgraded my bedroom TV to HD finally. I liked the cost more, though: $2/month for the CableCARD, and no other ongoing monthly fees for having DVRs. No extra fees because I had a second television connected. (Granted, I got by on the second TV because it was an old analog model, and I didn't have a cable box on it.)
I bought lifetime service on both TiVo units years ago, and the effective monthly cost of what I paid up front over what would be a reasonably long life is quite tolerable. And I could transfer shows between them without paying a ridiculous monthly fee for the privilege of doing so.
So that's my frame of reference when I look at how the bill breaks down.
I realize DVRs are more complicated that regular tuners, and thus more expensive. I can see the rationale for that fee, even if it annoys me.
I'd rather buy my equipment outright, own it outright, and also not be charged a fee because a couple of devices happen to have access to each other over a coax or Ethernet network in my house and want to share recordings between rooms.
Most people here have home broadband internet. What if your provider wanted to charge more EVERY MONTH because you had the gall to print from your laptop in the kitchen to the desktop computer's printer in the basement? There is no burden on the internet provider to move print job data within my home; why should DirecTV care if I want to move shows around? I doubt it costs DirecTV more if I have interconnected DVRs and/or C31 clients versus a pair of independent DVRs or two regular tuners.
If the internet provider followed the cable/sat model, we'd have to pay for every internet-connected device in the home individually, beyond the basic package and the first "free" device. And you'd have to lease a router from them to manage all these connections. In some ways, I'm surprised they don't. Having more computers in a home will likely use more of the provider's finite bandwidth capacity. Having more tuners/DVRs in one's satellite service has no impact on their systems; receiving the signals is completely passive as far as DirecTV's burden is concerned.
I'd rather buy a cell phone for $600 instead of $200, have no fixed contract period, and have the bill be at least $20 less for the next two years because they're not subsidizing my hardware, too, but that ain't gonna happen.