It sounds like you're doing a lot of things right, and once you've locked in one satellite, it gets a lot easier to lock in any other satellite that you want.
In general, the trouble in getting the first satellite is when your dish isn't pointing where you think that it's pointing. That is, after you calculate the right azimuth and elevation for the satellite that you want, you set your dish to that position, and then you typically have to move the dish a little to get the signal just right. That doesn't mean that the elevation or azimuth was wrong; it means that the elevation markings on your dish mount or your compass are a little off.
So when you've got a good lock, it makes repointing a lot easier. Compute the azimuth and elevation for the satellite you have and the satellite that you want. Do the math to see that the difference is, say, 6.4 degrees east and 1.2 degrees higher. Adjust the dish by that amount, and you'll be very close to a perfect signal.
Finally, of course the DSS birds have stronger signals; that's why you can use smaller dishes to receive them. But do they have Fashion TV and Retro Jams?
In general, the trouble in getting the first satellite is when your dish isn't pointing where you think that it's pointing. That is, after you calculate the right azimuth and elevation for the satellite that you want, you set your dish to that position, and then you typically have to move the dish a little to get the signal just right. That doesn't mean that the elevation or azimuth was wrong; it means that the elevation markings on your dish mount or your compass are a little off.
So when you've got a good lock, it makes repointing a lot easier. Compute the azimuth and elevation for the satellite you have and the satellite that you want. Do the math to see that the difference is, say, 6.4 degrees east and 1.2 degrees higher. Adjust the dish by that amount, and you'll be very close to a perfect signal.
Finally, of course the DSS birds have stronger signals; that's why you can use smaller dishes to receive them. But do they have Fashion TV and Retro Jams?