You can not copy from the DVR to your laptop. You can record to a DVD R in real time or you could acquire a video capture card for a computer and record to it in real time. I am not sure what is available in the way of video capture to a laptop since you don't have expansion slots. But, yes it will be slow because you can't copy from the DVR hard drive.
The only real option for that is to copy to a Pocket Dish instead of DVD. It will allow the kids to watch programs on the go, but not from your DVD player.
The only real option for that is to copy to a Pocket Dish instead of DVD. It will allow the kids to watch programs on the go, but not from your DVD player.